Female led relationship femdom

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Whatever the reason, the modern world has more women rising to levels of positions of power than ever before. If you are a female, and thinking about becoming a dominant mistress to a partner , then it is high time your man stepped aside and let you take the reins. Why not? OK, so what are we talking about here and why would men want to relinquish their authority and autonomy.

It may not entirely surprise you but there is no official or community definition of a female led relationship, as it can mean different things to different people. What it all boils down to though is a relationship where with consensual agreement, the female exerts a more dominant position in the relationship.

The relationship can be within good friends, a new partnership or a marriage, and can exist with broad scope or in tighter confines. When a male trusts a female enough, most often within a loving partnership, he relinquishes his opinion and authority to the female within agreed parameters. There are typical parameters, like social, financial, household tasks, errands, female desires and the female usually can dish out punishments for standards and non compliance, or challenges to the authority. The new mistress normally has complete running of the household.

However, for smaller matters or where she deems it important, her decision is the ultimate authority. Whether the male has to go and clean the bathroom, or make his mistress a coffee, her decision is not a request or up for discussion. Many men, especially those in responsible professional positions are entirely comfortable becoming passive and acting submissively towards their dominant female counterpart.

Many men actually enjoy the freedom from decision, in an area where women seem to like more control. The submissive male will have orders to always leave the loo seat down and a mistress can give out taskings for chores, and set the standards for compliance. She can then administer punishments, with whatever severity she deems appropriate for the infraction. The relationship is based upon trust and caring, but the female le. It is not like feminism at all, it is not about deliberately emasculating the male. The female just makes the household and relationship decisions.

A very popular misconception is that it is the same as role reversal , that it is the male and female typically swap roles. The female not only commands the relationship but is the breadwinner, and the male stays at home raising kids. In a female led relationship the male can still bring in the main income, and take an active role with any kids, but the female just makes the decisions.

Active feminism is actually off putting to many men, and only really happens in the more extreme levels of femdom. The advantages to a female led relationship for the female is quite obvious. She gets what she wants, without a fight. An interesting question is whether conflict produces a more interesting relationship. Often though, having a male submissive to their needs and wishes produces a more harmonious household.

A household where there is less tension, and chores are done to her satisfaction. But her submissive may have a few traits she could do without, like squeezing the toothpaste in the middle, or not emptying the bins. Maybe he has even developed a pot belly recently and a quick diet brings him back into shape.

A mistress will use her authority to improve her man, when she thinks she knows best for him. The mistress taking authority over areas actually increases the affection as he desires the submissiveness in the first place. In fact, submissive may be a word with too many negative connotations, but rather he will appreciate you more as he sees you taking authority in an area where he wants freedom from decision and consequence.

Perhaps the more difficult part of understanding a female led relationship is why men actively seek it and are willing to submit to it. It seems a little quizzicle why anyone, let alone a male would willingly submit themselves to indignity of losing their own autonomy. For many it provides balance in their life, a counterbalance on absolution from consequence to their professional lives.

There is little to no confrontation at home, the living environment becomes less frictional and additionally he may get a partner who seeks to extend her dominance into the bedroom. The male submissive places implicit trust in the female to look out for him and care for him with her decisions, and is willing to submit to ensure that trust and devotion. A female led relationship will extend out of the household, and is an integral part of the relationship, wherever they are. Social interactions and decisions can be heavily influenced by the female partner.

They are different because everyone is unique, and has different needs, wants, desires, passions, levels of trust and commitments. A man may well have been thinking of it for a while but the female might want to explore through practice what it might mean. She may like it, it may make her uncomfortable, but nonetheless she needs to display some dominance. The mistress perhaps has a few confined areas for dominance and the submissive has a larger scope for his own autonomy.

There are large areas where the partnership has not explored, or is unwilling to go into. Things like forbidding the submissive from going out for example. There are unlikely to be heavy punishments, and the mistress has control over a few things, perhaps like household finances, tasks, and errands pertaining to the running of the house. The mistress takes control over a few lifestyle areas and can explore how she feels about the new situation. As can the submissive. Nobody wants to give gentle femdom a try as a beginner and leaps straight into whips and flogging.

Many people can be at this level and not really know it. There are plenty of relationships where the female takes a much more dominant lead in the running of the household and the male just complies rather than argues. This level will pretty much get both parties comfortable with being prepared for higher levels of female control and domination.

As you might expect, this is a small step up from the beginner or extremely moderate level, and the female assumes a little more command and authority. The submissive and the mistress will have had a good in depth conversation about what works for them, and the male will hand over more control to the female.

The male still has autonomy in a wide variety of areas of his own choosing. Women have more scope for spontaneous acts of compliance, and making her submissive perform instant errands and tasks. The mistress may be getting into her stride with the concepts of authority and enjoys the power over the submissive. Her submissive may start showing more deference to her authority and supremacy. The mistress is probably more comfortable with acts of authority outside the household, and will take commands for small acts of her own pleasure or desires.

When she requires a bath, the submissive may be required to run and make the bathroom ready for example. More every day matters, rather than a few chores and the odd task are now well within hand and the submissive will start to feel the presence of the mistress more keenly. He will be required to attend to her needs a little more frequently, not just making her life slightly easier around the house.

The woman may also start to feel the benefits of the female led relationship and notice arguments are dwindling and the conflict has decreased. She may well feel more appreciated as a result. This is still all done with acceptable limits of instruction and the male still has a great deal of autonomy. The submissive is comfortable with his mistress and they are exploring together.

Punishments can get a little more harsh and corporal punishment can at least be introduced. Small level groundings, removal of privileges and cane spanking may be on the cards. A mistress needs to be sufficiently aware that putting her foot down might be necessary. The submissive will essentially want to test her. He may well decide to deliberately cause an infraction to see the response.

The rules will be there and less amorphous. Lines will be drawn so the sub knows where he stands. Limits are much higher towards the extremes, but the sub is still a male and has some autonomy, although it is much more limited.

The relationship can function normally to outsiders but the submissive is much more under control than before. The mistress is starting to lead the relationship and now has total dominance over the house running smoothly. She may task the submissive much more harshly and immediately to ensure the house is functional as she prefers it. The mistress obviously has much more dominance and the submissive starts realising that the female can interfere in pretty much any area of his home life. Some times she prefers not to. She will interfere when she deems it necessary.

Interference is on her terms of what she lets her man get up to. The submissive man makes very little input into the house decisions or social engagements. He expects to have these sort of decisions made for him and obey the commands. Social engagements may have to be approved by the mistress. His own preferences and pleasures can be overridden so that the mistress has her demands met. His life becomes more about making sure she is cared for, satisfied and has her needs met. There is still much autonomy and freedom for her, but he must seek a request for things.

Punishments are now much more severe. Long painful groundings can be applied, as can harsh corporal punishment. Mistress can deem the application of a cane and paddle whenever she feels it necessary. A paddle that will bring tears to his eyes. This level is only for hardcore devotees, and can often be seen with part time relationships.

A truly dominant mistress has now emerged who may have several men under her command.

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